Monday, May 4, 2009

Our Boys

Today was one of those hard days. My work is a bit crazy these days, and this afternoon Becky and I had to meet with our special needs financial planner. He has laid out a great plan, and we are thankful to have the resources and be put in touch with someone who can guide us through the special financial plan that Titus will need.
But to be honest, they are emotionally draining meetings to go through. We still need to sign the will/special needs trust and then continue all the documentation. But it was just one of those days, that you didn't want to go through it again.
And then, we come home to this. Tucker in his football gear, Cade with his beautiful smile, and the four oldest playing in the backyard. And Titus was just laughing as we played on the porch. And it's the reminder that this is why we do it. For the love of our boys.



1 comment:

Mary Ann the Librarian's Notes said...

I can not begin to fathom how these discussions could rip your heart out. I think it could be a chance for doubt & fear to sneak in. Amazingly once again the God who knows ALL gives you the encouragement you need to travel forward & implement your plans. Remember that they are not your plans but HIS. He knew this day would occur before you made the appointments. He also put the adorable boys in the football helmets to lift you up. Never fear... you have a strong team that will leave a their man behind. Those boys will love one another fiercely for all time. You can see it in their expressions & body language.